Dry roast sesame and peanuts until browned take aside into a blender
In the same pan, dry roast chilies, cumin & coriander for 30 secs to a minute. Add to a blender
In the same pan add some oil and toss the onions and garlic. Cook until the onions are translucent and slightly browned.
Add to the same blender jar along with salt, tamarind with the water, jaggery, salt and paprika. Blend into a smooth paste.
Next to the same pan, add more oil and drop the eggplant and cook on both sides for 4 mins each on medium heat.
Turn and add the spice paste on the cooked side and top off with coconut flakes. Flip and cook the spiced side for 2-3 mins and repeat on the other. Take aside into a plate once done.
Dilute the rest of the spice paste, add a little bit more oil to the pan and add the rest of the diluted paste and cook for 1-2 mins.
Serve the eggplant over rice and add the sauce into the plate.